BENDY IN BRIEF: Will I go 'gay for pay'?
If only I got a pound...
Can we put this question to bed please?
Its not the 'gay' aspect I have an issue with, its the principle and basis of the question I don't recognise and am deeply uncomfortable with:
FB 'FRIEND': ey. Benedict would you do gay for pay (no question mark)
ME: Do you enjoy paying people to do things that they are not comfortable doing otherwise? Do you get pleasure from that? Knowing the ONLY reason I would be spreading my bum cheeks or fucking your arse is because you paid me? You like that idea, do you? Does that turn you on?
Now, as I say, I may 'go gay', I may already have done so, this is not the point and nor is it relevant.
The point is:
A) Its not the fact I won't 'go gay', its the fact I don't want to 'go gay' for Tom, Dick or Harry who whips out his wallet. Its not something I am sexually confident or comfortable (physically, not morally) with to do with any person who happens to have a penis.
B) The idea my comfort and preferences can be bought for the highest bidder is something I am DEEPLY uncomfortable with.
Maybe I am naive. I am aware plenty of other people will just 'bend over and take it' (in more sense than one), because you are paying, but I have NEVER worked on that principle, and NEVER will I. If you want to INFLICT your pleasure on someone else who wouldn't otherwise even look at you, just because your wallet is big enough for them to be convinced to cast any of their preferences and physical comforts aside, then go ahead. I hope you are happy with yourself and that you can sleep soundly at night knowing that that is how you treat your fellow human beings. I know, for one, that I could not.
Oh, and by the way, no I have not used the services of a prostitute. Obviously, I am a prostitute, so I have no issue with it. BUT, if I did use a prostitute, I would pay for the services that they OFFERED, not try to convince them to do things they DIDN'T offer.
